Our priest emailed us asking for the wedding party pairings, and he asked about who is seating the mothers. My brother will escort my mother down the aisle, and who escorts my groom's mother, the groom? My FH and his mother are not particularly close, I'm going to ask her who she wants to be escorted by but in case she makes me choose or something (she may do that) I want to do what makes sense. If my FH does not escort her, would an usher be okay? both of our ushers are her nephews.