Latest dreams/nightmares?

sarawifenow · October 2014

So I know we have talked about this in the past. I had the weirdest wedding nightmare last night. FI and I had just finished our ceremony when he told me he didn't want to go to the reception. So he changed into sweats and refused to eat with me. I was sitting alone at the sweetheart table crying in my wedding dress. Ugh!

Any good WR or NWR dreams lately?

ShesSoCold · October 2014

I had a dream last night that H hit me. I woke up and was disgusted with myself that I would dream such a thing. It was really odd.

wanderwoman135 · October 2014

I had a great one not too long ago - it was really involved, but here goes.

It starts out that I was getting ready wedding morning and when I put on my dress I realized that the dress wasn't cleaned or altered at all, so it fit like crap and still had holes in it (I'm DIY-ing my own dress - don't judge). Then when it was time for the wedding my dad was nowhere to be found and so we were seriously late starting because there was no one to walk me down the isle.

Finally my dad showed up, but somewhere in the mix some of my bridesmaids revolted and my groomsmen showed up drunk, so the bridal party was a mess - but somehow we all got down the isle and the ceremony started. But the groomsmen insisted on sitting on the alter.

When my pastor went to give his message the head priest (I guess?) came out and said that my pastor couldn't marry us after all, and that we had to have the ceremony done by clergy from the church. So then our wedding ceremony was super short because all we did was exchange vows.

And THEN, in the middle of the vows, a professional basketball team came screaming out from behind the alter and ran up and down the isles cheering and chanting their team name. Everyone just sort of up and left the chapel and it was really awkward.

But then, at the very end of the dream when I was all depressed about how horrible the day had went, I started lecturing myself and saying that FI and I were married, and that's all that mattered. Whew, I don't think I'd be that mature in real life!!

theartistformerlyknownas · October 2014

After watching Walking Dead the other night, I had a dream that we were trapped in a train car. I woke up banging on the closet doors. H asked me what the hell was wrong, and I said "I can't get out." He said "use the door." I snapped out of it.

birdybride2014 · October 2014

The other night I had a dream that FI and I were renting a two bedroom apartment. Without us knowing, the complex rented out our second bedroom to my old roommate, who I despised living with and don't particularly like now in general. She moved in and I immediately started threatening that she should move out because soon FI and I would be having very loud, married people sex and she wouldn't be able to handle it.

I think it's funny that in the dream I emphasized that it will be "married" sex, as if it is suddenly going to change up on us lol

charlottesmom0626 · October 2014

I had a dream I was on that show "married at first sight" or something similar, but it wasn't my choice. I was forced into it. On this show/program/whatever I had to marry someone randomly.

I then had 30 days to make a decision if I wanted to come back to my current FI or stay with this new "random" husband.

But when the random I was supposed to marry showed up, it was my ex that I dated throughout highschool/college and I was miserable.

vulpiepop · October 2014

I dreamed that I woke up and it was the wedding day. I had thought it was supposed to be in the next few months but there was a mistake or something that made it the next morning and I had nothing done! I ended up being rushed out by my parents and future in-laws, stumbling through my vows that I failed to finish writing, going to the reception hall with no decorations or centerpieces or seating arrangements and random foods because we never picked our menu items.

emmaaa · October 2014

NWR: Warning this is really sad...

The other night/morning, FI had woke up to leave for work and I fell back asleep. When I did I had one of the worst and most memorable dreams ever.

I was at some event for work and there were tons of people there. There was one lady who had the cutest little baby with her and I asked to hold her. I held her and played with her for a few minutes. Then I had to go do something I handed her to the mother and left.

About 30 minutes later the mother runs up to me crying and screaming saying her baby is acting weird and seems like she can't breath. She hands me the baby and then the baby stopped breathing. I'm CPR certified so I asked if I could do CPR. I performed CPR just as I was trained.

It didn't help...the baby died in my arms.

I woke up in tears. When I told FI about it later, I started crying again.

sarawifenow · October 2014

emmaaa said:

NWR: Warning this is really sad...

The other night/morning, FI had woke up to leave for work and I fell back asleep. When I did I had one of the worst and most memorable dreams ever.

I was at some event for work and there were tons of people there. There was one lady who had the cutest little baby with her and I asked to hold her. I held her and played with her for a few minutes. Then I had to go do something I handed her to the mother and left.

About 30 minutes later the mother runs up to me crying and screaming saying her baby is acting weird and seems like she can't breath. She hands me the baby and then the baby stopped breathing. I'm CPR certified so I asked if I could do CPR. I performed CPR just as I was trained.

It didn't help...the baby died in my arms.

I woke up in tears. When I told FI about it later, I started crying again.

That is so sad! I hate dreams like that especially when they are so vivid.

theartistformerlyknownas · October 2014

@Emmaaa that's horrible! Although I read that when a stranger dies in your dream, it means you're feeling powerless/detached from what's happening around you. I don't know if there's a difference with it being a baby or an adult though.

emmaaa · October 2014

@lolo883 Who knows. I think maybe because I always feel like I need to be in control, when I'm not, even just a little, I feel powerless.

afox007 · October 2014

I hada dream/nightmare the other night that I was at a show FI was playing and he called me up on stage. We wound up saying our vows on stage totally unexpectedly with his drummer officiating. I was so happy until I realized I just got married and no one I needed there was there. I was sitting on the ground sobbing that I didn't want to have a PPD so now we had to get divorced.

As I was crying his ex came up to congratulate me and I lost it even more that she was there but my people weren't. After she left I noticed that the officiant and witnesses hadn't signed the license so it didn't count!

Inkdancer · October 2014

I dreamt that DH got eaten by werewolves.

beethery · October 2014

I woke myself up smacking FI on the arm and repeatedly yelling, "NOBODY!"

I just had to ask him what I was dreaming about, because I told him and then I fell back asleep and don't remember it. Apparently a bunch of people from his work, his dad's work, and his mom's work all showed up at our house for dinner when I'd only invited his parents. They'd extended the invitation to everyone and I was in the middle of (in the dream) explaining to FI to not let these weirdos in because they weren't invited, and he kept going let who in? NOBODY! NOBODY! smack smack smack NOBODY!

Sugargirl1019 · October 2014

I had a nightmare that at work, I had a wife that was very demonstrative and overbearing and emotionally on edge from no sleep for over 48 hours. My techs were rude and uncaring to her husband, the wife continued to say oh honey please be more gentle, don't move his arm that way, don't do that. And then the tech argues that she wasn't doing that. And then the wife says now honey don't you get sassy with me. I expect kindness and respect and you aren't treating either of us with it. Then I dreamed my techs left the room in a giant huff saying they were done here and needed to go take care of someone else. Wife continues to say how rude they were and that she was reporting them, and when I leave the room, the techs jump me and start yelling how rude the wife is, she is SO racist, they refuse to care for the patient and in all their years they have never had such a rude woman.

Then my other patients family comes out and starts crying on my shoulder, tears running down her face, because her family is making a decision for mom that doesn't include her and she doesn't feel its right and mom will end up dying alone because of it and she can't say anything because it's a culture thing and the man gets the say.

And then the crazy wife comes back out to tell me even more how rude those other girls were and she's reporting them to my manager and she cant believe we hire people like that.

Then I notice my tech has refused to go in there to clean the patient from voiding without me knowing or getting anyone else to do it in her place, and also did not get vital signs and blood sugars on the patient like they were supposed to. They did not tell me they were not going to do their job, and they didn't talk to management to pass off their responsibilities. Then I get bitched at for not standing up for her to the wife because she's SO racist and how could I not defend her behavior to the wife?

Oh wait. That was real life today. /sorryforthehugerant.

I have a throbbing headache and am sick to my stomach and I don't want to do damage control on top of everything else I have to do normally. I am WORN out. 5 days in a row with the same patient. I love these two families, seriously. But man I am emotionally and physically drained.

redwoodoriginal · October 2014

Sugargirl1019 said:

I had a nightmare that at work, I had a wife that was very demonstrative and overbearing and emotionally on edge from no sleep for over 48 hours. My techs were rude and uncaring to her husband, the wife continued to say oh honey please be more gentle, don't move his arm that way, don't do that. And then the tech argues that she wasn't doing that. And then the wife says now honey don't you get sassy with me. I expect kindness and respect and you aren't treating either of us with it. Then I dreamed my techs left the room in a giant huff saying they were done here and needed to go take care of someone else. Wife continues to say how rude they were and that she was reporting them, and when I leave the room, the techs jump me and start yelling how rude the wife is, she is SO racist, they refuse to care for the patient and in all their years they have never had such a rude woman. Then my other patients family comes out and starts crying on my shoulder, tears running down her face, because her family is making a decision for mom that doesn't include her and she doesn't feel its right and mom will end up dying alone because of it and she can't say anything because it's a culture thing and the man gets the say. And then the crazy wife comes back out to tell me even more how rude those other girls were and she's reporting them to my manager and she cant believe we hire people like that. Then I notice my tech has refused to go in there to clean the patient from voiding without me knowing or getting anyone else to do it in her place, and also did not get vital signs and blood sugars on the patient like they were supposed to. They did not tell me they were not going to do their job, and they didn't talk to management to pass off their responsibilities. Then I get bitched at for not standing up for her to the wife because she's SO racist and how could I not defend her behavior to the wife? Oh wait. That was real life today. /sorryforthehugerant. I have a throbbing headache and am sick to my stomach and I don't want to do damage control on top of everything else I have to do normally. I am WORN out. 5 days in a row with the same patient. I love these two families, seriously. But man I am emotionally and physically drained.

Omg that sounds like seriously one of the worst days ever. Do you at least have a day off soon? What type of schedule do you work to be on for five in a row?? Yikes. I hope your next day is much better and you get GOOD sleep. I rarely can sleep well after exhausting shifts smdh.

Sugargirl1019 · October 2014

I have today off yayyyy. Then I go back to work. It was just a sucky schedule this time around where the end and the beginning of the week kill you with those days lining up. I didn't ask for that shit.

charlieyankee03 · October 2014

I had my first nightmare about the wedding a few days ago. I blame being on vacation and not looking at TK for 10 days. I think lurking helps me vent lol

So it started with me walking through the neighborhood I grew up in. I was trying to find somebody (not sure who) and I couldn't. Then this SUV came screeching up with some family friends in it. The dad was yelling about how he abducted a bunch of girls and I was next. I was running away and trying to hide from him and his family when it jumped to our wedding reception.

I was wearing a long-sleeved lace gown that was too big on me and I finally found FI hiding in an alcove. He had a sticker on his suit jacket with a number on it. I asked him what that was and he said it was the number of pictures everyone had taken and uploaded to our smugmug site. Turns out that I hadn't done anything for the wedding! We had no photographer, the food was snack trays from the grocery store, my dress wasn't done so I had to wear my aunt's old one, and our vows weren't ready and went horribly. I was hysterically crying in my dream and woke up, surprised I wasn't crying in real life.

I'm chalking it up to feeling like we're running out of time to lock down a photographer and caterer. I've been very relaxed about the whole planning process since we decided on a venue and I guess my subconscious wants me to be a little more on top of things.

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