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When will it "hit" me?

johnsonwedding15johnsonwedding15 member
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So I have basically everything planned for our wedding. My family and I talk about it on a daily basis. It's in three months. We've been planning since February. We have are the middle of our church's pre-marital counseling. My fiance has moved into our home (I'm not moving in until we're married) and we are setting things up in it. I have had two wonderful showers with wonderful gifts. Everyone is excited for me, and I am too.

But it hasn't really "hit" me that we are getting married in three months. I am ready to make the commitment and everything is planned. I guess I haven't fully realized that it's really happening. 

Have any other brides experienced this? When will I realize it? Or are there any tips to helping me realize I am?

*by the way-I am NOT complaining-I just didn't know where else to post this* :)
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Re: When will it "hit" me?

  • thejucheideathejucheidea member
    Tenth Anniversary 2500 Comments 500 Love Its First Answer
    We already lived together and had a few people who thought we were already married, so it never really hit because after the wedding, we just went back to how we'd already been for years. It was super nice.

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  • JeeGooDowsterJeeGooDowster member
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Love Its 100 Comments Name Dropper
    You can do all the planning you want and get things done and feel accomplished - but it probably won't "hit" you until you're waiting to walk down the aisle (that's what happened to me!!)
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  • MesmrEweMesmrEwe member
    Knottie Warrior 2500 Comments 500 Love Its 5 Answers

    I was too stressed out from having to do pretty much everything myself that it really didn't "hit" until about 10:30 on our actual wedding night when I looked in the window's reflection of myself in the dress...

    Don't fret about it - enjoy the process and the steps.  That way when it does "hit" it's an enjoyable one instead of a stressed out one. 

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  • short+sassyshort+sassy member
    Knottie Warrior 10000 Comments 500 Love Its 5 Answers
    I felt exactly the same way you did! My wedding was OOT for us and I think the moment it became "real" was in the few minutes before leaving for the airport for our wedding location. It was like, "Oh my gosh, we are about to get on a plane...to go get married...it is finally really happening!"
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