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I'm leaving you guys.

sarawifenowsarawifenow member
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Today is my last day at work and my last day on TK until after the wedding. I am going to return a married woman! (and probably SaraWifeNow if TK will let me).

 

Thank you all so much for all the advice, listening, laughs, etc the last several months. I heart you!

 

So, last minute jitters/anxiety are record breaking this morning. I haven't slept in three days. Tonight I pick up FBIL and FSIL from the airport and the rest of our OOT guests arrive tomorrow. Any last minute advice for calming down/decompressing?

 

I will be around today and then will update as soon as I am back.

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  • falsarafalsara member
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    Yaaaay! !! Enjoy this week. I can't wait to see the AW post!!!!

    I recommend taking an hour or two for yourself every day. Drink a glass of wine, watch a movie. Nothing wedding related during this time.


                                               

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  • NdelibleNdelible member
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    Congrats and enjoy!
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  • novella1186novella1186 member
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    Congrats! I hope everything is AWESOME!!! :) 
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  • themuffinman16themuffinman16 member
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    Drink plenty of wine! Lol, but when you don't want to drink give yourself time to just meditate. I had sores all in my mouth from stress. I made sure I dedicated time to myself to relax and they went away before the wedding.
      Enjoy your wedding day. Very few days are as beautiful as your wedding. make sure to look at the audience to take it all in.  The love you feel from your family and friends, on your wedding day, you will cherish, forever.
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  • theycallmelinztheycallmelinz member
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    Congrats!! We'll all be here waiting for the AW when you get back!
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  • kaitlynmichellekaitlynmichelle member
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    Congrats! Remember to eat. Breathe, take time for just you and enjoy!
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  • southernbelle0915southernbelle0915 mod
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    Can't wait for the AW when you get back!! 

    Advice on relaxing: Let it all go. You've done all you can do and if you worry about stuff, you'll be missing moments you can't get back. Take it allll in.
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  • cupcait927cupcait927 member
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    Congratulations!!! We're all so excited for you. I ditto all of the advice that you've been given so far. Just remember to relax that day and that no matter what happens, it's going to be magical and very, very special.
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  • beetherybeethery member
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    I hope everything is rad as fuck and goes off without any hitches! BEST OF LUCK AND EARLY CONGRATULATIONS YOU FABULOUS ASS BITCH!!!!!
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    I'm the fuck     out.

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  • sarawifenowsarawifenow member
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    Awwww you all are the best. FI is "sneaking over" to my mom's tonight to hang out with me before we pick up FILs. I haven't seen him in three days and I am not entirely sure I won't jump him on the spot.

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  • chibiyuichibiyui member
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    Wine solves everything.

    Best of luck and congrats!
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  • pinkcow13pinkcow13 member
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    Yay!!!! I can't wait to see all your pics :) Have a wonderful, and fabulous wedding day!!!! Have a margarita before bed - a fun way to destress. And try to relax. Take some time to pamper yourself, and remember to take it all in! 
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  • levioosalevioosa member
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    Congratulations!   Have a great week and a wonderful wedding!!!


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  • goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826goldchocobo.defunct635829490514903826 member
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    Enjoy!!  

    Don't sweat those little details.  What is done is done.  Bask in the glow of a wonderful wedding and becoming a wife :)
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  • climbingsingleclimbingsingle member
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    Yay!! Best of luck! Enjoy!
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  • anjemonanjemon member
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    Congratulations and have fun! I second the margarita. Nothing relaxes (and puts me to sleep) like tequila :)
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  • InkdancerInkdancer member
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    Take deep breaths, eat enough food, and hug your FI as often as you can. Have fun!
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  • KaurisKauris member
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    Congratulations @SaraBrideSoon aka SaraBrideNow!! Yay!!
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  • smalfrie19smalfrie19 member
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    yay date twin. we got this!!!!!!!
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  • esstee33esstee33 member
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    Ahhhhh!!! Have a blast, lady!! I can't wait for your AW!
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  • princessleia22princessleia22 member
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    Congrats!  Relax and enjoy! 

    My best advice is to tell yourself that it is okay to let the little things go. I was stressing like crazy over little details, then got to a point where I just decided that they really weren't important to having an awesome wedding.  Decorations, favors, things like that... you probably won't even notice on your big day.  And your guests won't notice if those things aren't perfect either. I stressed on getting our songs together for the DJ... he screwed them up anyway. I stressed over my bouquets not being exactly right, so I changed to something much simpler at the last minute, and they were perfect.

    As long as you have your groom, your VIP's, and the big items in place, everything will be perfect (even if it's not), so don't over stress on the details. Don't forget to take a lot of mental snapshots to remember. And just live in the moment and enjoy the day.

    Oh, and get someone (your photographer or a guest) to take a photo of the grooms face when you enter.  I asked my brother to do that for me and it's one of my favorite pictures.  Everyone was looking at me, but I remember the look and glow on my husbands face.  And I'm glad I have an actual photograph showing that amazed look.

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  • SmileDamnitSmileDamnit member
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    You're in for what looks like a beatutiful Colorado weekend. Enjoy it!
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  • sarawifenowsarawifenow member
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    Thanks all! I think stress just kicked my ass. Just got back from puking in the bathroom. My assistant told me that I look like an albino. Awesome. Praying this doesn't happen Saturday!
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  • slothiegalslothiegal member
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    GOOD GET OUT OF HERE.


    Mwuah you know I'm kidding!  Good luck and come back soon with lots and lots of pics.  Take a deep breath, and as some other PPs have pointed out--this is the phase where you get to say "fuck it, what's done is done, what's not done isn't and at the end of the day, IMMA BE MARRIED".  

    HAVE FUN!  LOVE YOU!
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    Have fun!
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  • arrippaarrippa member
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    Have a wonderful wedding day! I can't wait to hear all about it.
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