It's Fall and I love Fall - it's gorgeous this time of year. However, with it, inevitably comes the crappy weather and the long dark days. And this in turn causes my DH to slide into a funk of quiet, restless, depressive?, pondering. Is he happy with his job? His weight? Is he doing everything he wants to do with his life? It's been happening for a week - he'll need some 'away' time or shut down or just need to get away and do something different then the usual (Not constant for a week, but a few times over the week, most recently today). Sometimes it's by himself to regroup....and I take it personally. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help myself from doing it.
I constantly ask - are you ok? Is everything ok? Is there anything I can do? He always says he's fine, just needs a different space, or he's fine, just quiet. It's a funk he gets in and it always makes me nervous that something might be wrong (I used to be in a relationship where communication sucked, this sorta of thing happened on a bigger scale and we broke up, so it now makes me jumpy during these times). Does this happen with anyone else and their DH? How do you deal? Any ideas or recommendation on how I can deal with it better aside of the nervous nagging to try and fix it?