I got engaged on July 14th, 2010. My fiance and I are having some trouble figuring out what year we want to get married. There are a few factors in determining this and we are both stressing out about how to make everything work. First of all, we are both sophomores in college. We have decided not to live with each other until we are married. I am paying for school all by myself, my fiance is getting his schooling paid for by his parents as long as he stays "dependent" (not married). This is their way of keeping him from doing something that they don't want him to do. They don't exactly approve us being engaged so soon. My parents couldn't be happier about it. This gives us our first option, wait until after graduation and make his parents happy along with getting his schooling paid for. Which would mean that we would not get married until 2013. Or, we could get married the spring/summer of 2012 and only have to worry about paying for one year of his college tuition, live together, and be happy. This is what we truly want for ourselves. We want to start our lives together as soon as possible but we have the issues of his parents and money. We just can't figure out what to do. We are at a stand still and it is stressing us out. Please give us advice!