So I mailed my invitations out a few weeks ago for my December 6 wedding, and my RSVP date is in two weeks. I've heard of two instances of people not receiving invitations, and I haven't gotten them returned, so they are lost in post office limbo somewhere. Now I'm super paranoid that other people haven't gotten theirs. Pretty much everyone is OOT so they all received STDs, so I'm worried that people think I'm rude and didn't send them an invitation.
What do I do? I feel like it's not the right idea to email everyone who hasn't responded yet to see if they got an invitation because it could be seen as pressuring people to send their responses. Should I wait until the RSVP date and then contact those who we haven't heard from? Then I'm worried that if people didn't get invitations they won't be able to come because of the cost of travel.