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MOB send shower hosts thank you note?

love2teach956love2teach956 member
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I always prefer to be overly "etiquetted" lol, than under. As mother of the bride, I attended bridal shower hosted by four ladies(one invite stating all four were hosting it). Should I send thank you note to each lady individually for hosting the shower?
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  • artbyallieartbyallie mod
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    love2teach956 said:
    I always prefer to be overly "etiquetted" lol, than under. As mother of the bride, I attended bridal shower hosted by four ladies(one invite stating all four were hosting it). Should I send thank you note to each lady individually for hosting the shower?
    Nope, that is your daughter's responsibility as the guest of honor.
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  • MobKazMobKaz member
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    I agree with @artbyallie that it is your daughter's responsibility to send a thank you note to the hostess(es).  However, I understand your line of thought.  I think it also depends on your relationship with the hostess(es).  4 of my daughter's oldest and dearest friends hosted a baby shower for her in my home.  They put their hearts and souls into it.  The day was incredible.  Because I have had a relationship with these women as well, I chose to write each of them a heartfelt letter thanking them for their efforts and friendship.

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  • Jen4948Jen4948 member
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    That's definitely something your daughter as the honoree should do.  But I agree with MobKaz that if you think your relationship with the hostess(es) warrants it, it's a sweet gesture.
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  • southernbelle0915southernbelle0915 mod
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    You daughter absolutely should send 4 individual TY notes. You can always send a thank you to a hostess, but be sure it doesn't come off as you trying to thank them on your daughter's behalf.
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  • cafarriecafarrie member
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    southernbelle0915 said:
    You daughter absolutely should send 4 individual TY notes. You can always send a thank you to a hostess, but be sure it doesn't come off as you trying to thank them on your daughter's behalf.
    THIS.  My MIL does things like that (and I'm obnoxiously on top of thank you notes) but it always makes me feel like she doesn't trust me.
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