FI and I are working on a pretty tight budget. We don't have much money left for pre-wedding stuff. I'm skipping out on spa days or any of that business but I was able to hire a hair and makeup person for the big day. The problem is there is no way I'm going to be able to budget in the rest of the wedding party or the two moms. I was thinking of taking them all out to get their nails done day of instead but would it still be unfair for me to be getting my makeup and hair done while my favorite ladies go without? Should I ask them if they'd want to pay for their hair and makeup? Just to be clear, I haven't asked anyone to get their hair done, it's not a wedding requirement. If they would rather do their own hair and makeup that's fine too.
Re: Can't afford hair and makeup for bridemaids/moms
You can always tell your girls that your stylist is charging $X for hair and makeup and to let you know if they would like to arrange an appointment.
To answer OP's question, I think it's nice of you to take them to get heir nails done. It would be fine to ask if they'd like to book an appointment to get their hair done, just let them know the cost and that it's not a requirement. It's not unfair for you to be getting yours done. You are the bride afterall!