So my FI and I were going through our guest list last night. He didn't really say anything about the people listed except for one girl on my list.I was friends with this girl back in high school. We went our separate ways after that, but we still kept in touch via Myspace and Facebook. I still consider her a good friend, even though we don't talk to each other too often. Maybe on Facebook once or twice every couple months.
So why does he not want her coming to the wedding?
Because he went out on a date with her back in college.
ONE DATE. ONE DATE THAT DIDN'T WORK OUT.
That is it.
I was surprised to say the least, but I am not upset over it. This happened WAY before we met. Like SEVEN years before we met.
I think he is silly for not wanting her to come to the wedding. I don't know if it's because it will bring back bad memories (he didn't tell me how their date went), or if it's because he's nervous about seeing her again, or if it will create an awkward situation between the three of us.
I want to invite her to the wedding, because she was such a good friend to me, but I don't want to go against my FI's wishes, either.
What would you do?