So I have a few dilemmas on my hands right now and I'm unsure how to handle them.
1) My sister announced her engagement and pregnancy in July 2014, and isn't getting married until summer 2016. My boyfriend and I have recently decided to get engaged and I have no idea how to break the news to my family because I feel as if I'm hijacking my sister's spotlight. We don't want to wait until after her wedding to get married, so we're planning our wedding for fall 2015. I'm so afraid that my family will get mad about sneaking my wedding in before hers. Am I overreacting? Am I being rude by not wanting to wait until after her wedding?
2) Because everything is happening so fast, the only Saturday date available at the venue we like is Halloween. Due to a large family on his side, we're not letting guests bring their children. Would this be a faux pas to a. Have a wedding on Halloween and b. Take parents away from their children on Halloween? Sidetone, it wouldn't be a huge loss for us if the parents decided to spend Halloween with their children instead of coming to our wedding.