I have a quick question for you ladies ( and possible gents!). FMIL's Bday is approaching, and she wants to go to Atlantic City tomorrow. She wants FI to take her. That's totally fine, but he wants me to go, and she wants me to go too. Personally, I hate Atlantic city in the winter because there is nothing to do but gamble at the casinos. I can only gamble for so long before I get bored (or irrationally angry).
So my question is, would it be wrong or rude of me not to go? She wants to go to AC every year, and I went 2 years in a row. I missed last year because I ended up getting a nasty cold the day before. She asked me earlier at thanksgiving dinner and I told her maybe, and she was all "But it's my birthday!!!! You have to come!" Also, Honestly I am strapped for cash now. The wedding is a few months away, we have a lot of crap in the coming weeks, not to mention Christmas. I really can't afford a trip this minute, even if for one day. FI said I could just chill and drink, Which means I'll make bad decisions ( I know myself. I will get bored if I'm just drinking watching them gamble. And then I will join. And irrational anger will happen. Unless I win the jackpot).
I feel bad, though. It is her birthday. And she actually gave us a very generous check for our honeymoon. Then I feel that she will be thrilled just being with FI for the day. What do you guys think? Should I suck it up and go? Or is it not a bad thing if I just stay home?