My FI's mother passed several years ago. We had discussed future plans before she passed, but FI was still in school so even then it was pretty clear we would not be getting married for several years. At that time he had discussed with her that he planned on using some of his inheritance on our future wedding, which we are now doing. My question is I have seen on other posts that you do not include the deceased on invites, but the money we have used from his family so far is from her. I should add, his parents were already divorced when she passed but we are getting married in the area his dad lives (and FI grew up, he was living with his father when we started dating) so I believe that technically makes his dad the host.