It's a month before the wedding, and I'm probably thinking too much about things, but one of my BM's financial situation has me worried. All of the girls I asked to be in my wedding probably couldn't afford it, but I couldn't be without them, so I have tried to make everything except the dress optional, and tried to collectively find the most attractive cheap dress we could. Tomorrow is my bridal shower, and this particular bridesmaid is so genuinely strapped for cash that she handmade my gift (an idea I love) and had to borrow money from me just to afford the trip up. Now the girls have planned my bachelorette party for two weeks from now, and she's insistent that she HAS to be there. I can't afford to pay for her trip again, and I'm reasonably certain none of the other girls can either. How do I gently say, I get you're really broke and can't afford to come, and I appreciate how much you've been there for me emotionally and with decisions and whatnot, but I can't afford to bring you up again, without hurting her feelings? She's one of my closest friends, and I adore everything she's done for me through the process, but I'm just out of money right now....
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