FI and I are getting married at a beautiful hotel in DC, and after we are arranging to go to a couple bars as a kind of after party. Since we will see a lot of guests after the wedding, I think it's really silly to have any kind of send off - we will basically be "sent off" and then come right back to the room. But FI thinks people like to send people off, and thinks we should do it. I hate saying no because he's been so low key with the wedding, and hasn't asked for much, but I do think it's silly.
What would you guys do? Should I say fine and just let him have it, or do I say it's silly and say we shouldn't do it?