I would prefer my wedding to be adults only. I have read other posts about this topic and I do like the idea of putting something on the invitation like "we have reserved X seats in your honor." But I have two thoughts about this:
1. I have some family that would have to travel for the wedding so I would prefer to give them as much notice as possible that they might need to arrange for childcare.
2. If there are single parents invited, I would like them to bring an SO if they wish but would they interpret the "2 seats" as them and their child?
Any thoughts? Thanks in advance.