April 2012 Weddings

Honest Opinions On Tipping April Brides..I need your thoughts

Now its panic time, writing huge checks and the wedding is 35 days away so I'm really watching budgets...need help with the tipping part:

Venue has a 23% serve fee that explicitly states it is NOT a gratuity but went on to say in regards to tipping the only person that should be considered is the event manager, who I already factored in.  If they said this-does that mean I don't need to think about tipping out all the support staff (waitstaff, restroom attendants?  bartenders?)  I waitressed weddings for 5 years and never rec'd tips.  Thoughts?

If gratuity is included in the total cost of transportation-am I still expected to tip on top?  My first thought was no....

DJ + Assistant- how much?

Photographer working solo, owns the business-how much?

I think that is it, Im doing the typical 20% for hair and makeup and other than than I didnt have anyone else.  Ceremony musicians are the church cantor and organist both of whom are getting paid in cash a good sum of money for an hour so I wasnt tipping on top of that.

Anyone Im leaving out?  I never thought it was this confusing and all the research has confused me further.....

Re: Honest Opinions On Tipping April Brides..I need your thoughts

  • Okay typically if the person you would be tipping is the owner of the business you are not required to give an additional tip as all the money from your event goes to them.
    Here is a link to the knots tipping guide http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-planning/wedding-budget/articles/wedding-vendor-tipping-cheat-sheet.aspx

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  • I hadn't even really thought too much about tips yet...but thanks Aimee for posting the link to the tipping article!
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  • I think you bring up a good point and I had thought to to tip: hair (salon tip) makeup about $10, DJ I hear if you tip them early it makes a difference? I also plan to tip the 20% service charge stated for the food/beverage.
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  • fyi please ask the venue what the service fee is vs tip?
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  • I think you bring up a good point and I had thought to to tip: hair (salon tip) makeup about $10, DJ I hear if you tip them early it makes a difference? I also plan to tip the 20% service charge stated for the food/beverage.
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  • OP, if the venue says you don't need to add extra tip, then they are probably calling it a service fee for tax reasons or something. We are not tipping in addition to the service fee. We also have a private photog, who I was not planning on tipping, but he is bringing a second photog for the ceremony, who I was planning in tipping. It's all so complicated! Lynch, do you mean the DJ does a better job if you tip them early in the evening?
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