To someone whose spouse just died?
Seriously. My great aunt sent me a card with a check in it. Between her sending it and me getting it... My great uncle passed away. So the card actually is from both of them.... But obviously he's not here anymore to thank. I sent one today that was just addressed to her, tried to be as loving as possible and basically avoided the whole thing. Does anyone have any good advice on how I could have done better, if at all? I mean it seemed crass to be like "it was so good to see you last week at the funeral!" So I just put something about wanting to invite her over to our new home (we moved into her neck of the woods) soon.