I am so confused right now and am a little upset at myself for not having paid attention at past weddings.
Ok, so we are going to write our own ceremony/ paste different ceremonies together as well as our own vows however...where do those go and doesn't the officiant still have to say his part?
Example:
Officiant: Do you Skyler Rene Smith, take Jamie Harper Lee, to be your beloved spouse, knowing in your heart that you will be a faithful friend, and a loving companion? On this special day, in the presence of family and friends as witnesses, do you give your sacred vow that you will always be with Jamie and support her, in times of sickness and in times of health, in times of joy and in times of sorrow? Do you promise to love her completely, to console and comfort herduring difficult times, to laugh with her and to grieve with her, to share with her life’s simplest but most enduring pleasures, to be truthful and honest with her, and to cherish her, for as long as you both shall live?
Bride says I do and then same thing for the groom.
Where do our own vows go? I thought it was one or the other and I want our ceremony to flow well. I also kind of wanted to shorten so there isn't so many vows.