So my Fiance and I do not want a cake. We don't usually pay attention to anything related to the cake at other weddings and unless they bring the cake to us most of the time we forget to eat said cake. We have also noticed our friends have ended up with tons of left over cake. We just don't think we should waste money on cake since we feel so negative towards them. However when I mention not having cake to my mother she goes in to a long winded conversation about why we should have a cake. We talked about cupcakes but I'm not even all that interested in that route either. I'm curious to know what other peoples opinions pro or con to not having a cake. Thanks!!!