Our venue is a dual venue for both our wedding and reception, its based in the city that FI and I currently live, but its 1.5-2 hrs away from my hometown where most of my family still resides. Our wedding was supposed to start with guest arrival at 6 PM and ceremony starting at 6:30 PM afterwards cocktail hour, then dinner and the rest of the festivities until midnight when everyone has to be out. Thankfully, the bridal party has 2 hours of extra use of the space before the guests arrive to either get ready in the bridal suite, take first look photos and all of the other photos, etc, so because of these 2 extra hours we were able to move up the guest arrival by a half hour as well as the ceremony and dinner so hopefully the kiddies won't be so antsy with it being an evening wedding.
Most of my family members are starting to have babies, have young kids, and FI family is all of his mom, dad, grandparents, and 3 sisters with a max of 4 kids. I really wanted my no kids wedding, however, I didn't think it would go over well with everyone so I caved! I was also scared that I would have a lot of declines due to the no kids invited, I want all of my family there.
Are you having kids or adults only? What made you decide your option?