I got a text a few weeks ago from my FMIL asking if I would be interested in a bridal shower. From this text I thought that meant she was throwing me one. I went to church a few days after that text and one of the ladies approached me and said she was the one throwing it. I really really appreciated the thought...but she wasn't invited to our wedding.
I'm probably just really awkward but I didn't know how exactly to say "Thank you for wanting to do this but you aren't even invited to our wedding". Not only is she not invited but no one at the church is invited. It has kind of been an awkward topic because it is a pretty small church and my FFIL is the only pastor and every one that goes there has probably known my fiance since he was a small child.
We, honestly, just couldn't afford to invite everyone despite how small the church was. We decided to just not invite anyone from church that we weren't extremely close to in this time of our life.
Anyway, etiquette, on this bridal shower? What do I do?
The host is now invited with a few other people but I don't exactly know what to do about the other people who might attend the bridal shower. I don't know who is invited.