So I recently got engaged within the past month... My fiancé and I live in Las Vegas, NV. I'm originally from Hawaii and am very family oriented. My fiancé has family and friends all over the U.S. We're planning on paying for the wedding ourselves and don't plan to get married until late 2016. The only problem is..... WE CAN'T DECIDE WHERE TO GET MARRIED!! :-(
Id like to get married in Hawaii, because I have a big family and would like to have all of them there... ONLY thing is my fiancé wouldn't have much friends or family attend. I don't want to do that to him because it's OUR DAY!!
He'd like to get married in Vegas because it's in the middle.... I'm all for it.... But then I remember that 90% of my family WOULDNT be able to make it and I'll be getting married in front of HIS friends and family and a small portion of mine.
He has mentioned that he doesn't mind having something in both places... But where do we do the ceremony to make things fair?
I need advice on finding a HAPPY MEDIUM!