So one of my very dearest friends has her own wedding photography business, and she takes amazing photos. I have known her for 15 years and when she started this venture one thing was a given, when I got married, SHE would be the one to do the photography. Now after 6 years of being together my fiance finally proposed, however money is tight and he's pretty thrifty anyway. I allowed $1400 on the budget for the photography and my friend said she would work up a deal for me (just not sure what it is yet, but I know it will be under the $1400). Here's the kicker...
The fiance's parents have offered to pay for the photography...providing we use someone THEY know (a personal friend with NO wedding photography experience and NO PROFESSIONAL photography experience. I kindly reminded my fiance how long I have known my friend and this "vendor" is not negotiable as far as the planning was concerned. To which his reply is "You would rather pay $1400 for a photographer than get one for free".
We could really use the financial help with the wedding and I'm really having a hard time with the fact that his family put this stipulation on helping financially. Has anyone else experienced this and how did you handle it??