I'm on the fence with my two photographer choices and need a gut check on whether or not I'm being a bridezilla. Both photographers are slightly out of the area (2-3 hour drive) but I am willing to pay the travel fees. Photographer A has shot a wedding at my venue before, but is having me pay for her hotel the night before the wedding so she can visit the church, drive from church to reception site and generally scope out the location. Photographer B has never shot a wedding at my venue before, let alone in the area, and when I asked what her plans were to see the site ahead of time, she said they would drive up that day and make decisions while they are there, seeming confident in her abilities to make due with whatever the situation may be.
I'm completely turned off by Photographer B's answer because I don't like the idea of anyone "shooting from the hip" on my wedding day. What are other bride's experiences with photographers? Am I expecting too much for the photographer to make a special trip to visit the location, even if I'm willing to pay travel costs? Is this standard?