My finance's mom and I used to be pretty close, I would hang out with her one on one and we had a great time. She is a negative person and I've always known that but since the negativity was never directed at me I was able to ignore it. Since we got engaged, the wedding and myself have become the targets of her negativity. We are having a pretty traditional wedding, my parents are paying for the day of and his family is paying for the rehearsal. Our wedding is very soon and I was nervous because she had done nothing to plan the rehearsal dinner. I took it upon myself to call caterers in the area, work out a menu and got a final quote. I sent it to her, asked if she was ok with it and she said yes. Later I come to find out that she is calling other places behind my back and trying to change everything. I get that the rehearsal dinner is her thing, but I took care of the food for her. I was frustrated because I thought she would work on other things that needed to be done (so far the food is the only thing nailed down). At the beginning I really tried to include her in the wedding planning (her daughter, my FSIL is a bridesmaid), but throughout the whole process she has done nothing but make negative comments about the wedding. At this point I don't even talk to her about the wedding. Sometimes I feel like she doesn't want us to get married even though she's never said that. This is very hard on my fiance and although he hates her negativity, she is still his mom. He told her that her negative attitude toward the wedding has to stop and it did...for about a week. I've heard that people suddenly become less crazy after the wedding, but I'm already starting to resent her for making this special time anything but. The only saving grace is that my family and my mom have been AWESOME. The only stress in the planning process has come from her. Am I being too sensitive? Should I say anything to her?