So here's my big planning dilemma right now. I was raised Catholic and my FI was raised Presbyterian, neither of us are practicing any more but both of us agree if we were to start going back to church it would be to Presbyterian services, but I may personally return to the catholic faith someday. Because there is a difference in how marriage is done in both of these religions we were almost to the point of biting the bullet and doing a Catholic ceremony to please my side of the family.
We then found out that we are probably going to have to sign a promise that we will raise any children in the Catholic faith, which is a deal breaker for us. We know we could sign and do whatever we want when we do have children but doing that insincerely just doesn't feel right to us.
So we had just about made up our minds that we would just do a simple Presbyterian service at his church when I found out if we do that without obtaining permission from the bishop I would no longer be able to receive communion in a catholic service.
This all puts me in a hard place to figure out how I really feel about religion and we're starting to run out of planning time, has anyone else had to really question their religious beliefs when planning. And how the heck did you figure it out?