A little background.... My fiance and I have been together for 5 years and both of us and our families are from the same area in Indiana. Currently we live in Savannah, GA (and so do my parents). We couldn't decide on where to have the wedding initially but finally decided on having it in our hometown so that we could celebrate with everyone (also my grandmother isn't in great health and it would be hard for my grandfather, whom I am extremely close to, and her to travel).
I am not a fussy bride. I don't really care what colors or flowers I am most concerned about staying in budget and I just want everyone to have a great time. I would love to have part of the ceremony or reception to be outside cause my fiance and I love the outdoors and summer parties. The hard part is I don't really have anyone to help me plan at home. I have found a couple places that I got excited about and finally stopped stressing and wanted to start planning but for one reason or another they have fell through. I tend to be a people pleaser and want to do what is most convenient for everyone else so I was struggling with the distance and how I am going to do this.
With the last place being pretty much locked in and then finding out you have to rent restrooms right before we signed the contract (which would have been an extra $2000) put it over our budget. Now we are thinking of having a small private ceremony with just immediate family in Savannah and a large reception in Indiana. I am worried the reception won't feel the same if we do it that way.
I know this seems all over the place but I can't make a decision to save my life. I want to have the wedding this year but haven't done anything yet. I would love feedback on everyones experience planning a long distance wedding or small ceremony and large reception.