My bridesmaids ordered their dresses in November and I'm glad they did because lo and behold... they're late getting here. They were supposed to be here mid-February and they still are not here (2 have arrived, 2 are late). I'm not freaking out. We still have 7.5 weeks until the wedding.
I have one bridesmaid that is LOSING HER FUCKING MIND. She's been on me since Monday, "Are the bridesmaid dresses here? Where are they?" So I contacted the salon, the owner said that she would look into it. Yesterday (Tuesday), I hear back from the salon owner, "The dresses shipped on the 20th. The designer didn't have any tracking info for me, so they're going to get back to me ASAP with the info." Cool, whatever. I am, in no way, concerned. I relayed the info to my Bridesmaid, who didn't return my text message but usually that means that she's pissed off (This is the same bridesmaid who is pissed off I am not attending/funding her OOT bachelorette that she is planning through her MOH)
Today, I get a text from my BM about the dresses. Said I would contact the salon but that I was being patient with them because it's not their fault that the dress isn't here yet. There's a designer and a shipping company between the dresses and my BM. So I have patience for days in this situation. I get another text around 4pm today "Have you heard anything?" Told her I haven't heard anything yet... so she went to their Facebook page, found a recent post today that was not even related to her issue "How about you be excited and find me the bridesmaid dress I ordered in November? I left a VM on Monday and haven't heard anything."
You have GOT to be fucking kidding me. I finally heard back from the salon around 530, she still hasn't heard anything but not to worry, the dresses will be here in time. I apologized for my bridesmaid (because I assume she's seen the comment) and that I was so embarrassed that she would behave like that. The salon owner quickly responded, saying she would call my BM tonight and see if she can smooth things over and not to be embarrassed as it's no reflection on me, how she behaves.
I am so embarrassed and angry. I've been in constant communication with my BM on what's going on. I told her earlier in the week that it's not the salon's fault that the dresses are taking a longer time and she responds with "It's not their fault but it's their responsibility." Responsibility to what? For what? I don't understand WHY she's being like this. I don't understand WHY she needs her dress right now. Things are already very rocky between us and right now, I just want to scream at her. Does she not trust me to handle this? Why does she have to leave shitty comments on a Facebook page of a bridal salon that has been BEYOND nice to me and accommodating through my entire dress process? I just don't know what to do. I'm dying. Fucking DYING right now.