So my fiance and I have been butting heads on our bachelor and bachelorette parties for a few months now. His friends and family are coming from out of state for the wedding. Our wedding is on Sunday and our rehearsal and dinner is on Thursday. His best man is supposed to be coming the Monday before the rehearsal. And it's not possible for the him or the other groomsman to come here for two seperate events. And his groomsman lives in Vegas and that is where he wants to have his bachelor party. I have no problem with that. The only problem I do have is he wants to have it on Friday and Saturday between our rehearsal and wedding. He flat out told me he wants to stay up all night and get wasted. And the reason we have been butting heads is because I think it's crazy to do that right before the wedding. I told him anytime before the rehearsal would be fine, but he keeps getting so defensive and saying I have no right to say anything about it. And I get where he's coming from, but I just don't think it will be a good idea. Especially because of all of the last minute details. But he sees it very differently than I do. Am I totally wrong? What would you do or are you doing? Advice would be greatly appreciated.