Some people are so tacky.
From someone I went to college with (note that this person was in H's graduating class and is therefore 30 or about to be):
"The more I plan things for our wedding, the more I realize it is SO about to be about our love for one another and a food truck. ya'll better prep to BYOB and bring a tray of cookies... It will be beautiful and lovely and the cheapest thing I've ever pulled off. lol."
Same person, excerpt from a 'woe is me' type status:
"Officially reached max capacity with opinions on my wedding and my life in general."
Maybe you shouldn't post about your wedding/life/etc. all over FB if you don't want opinions. Maybe you shouldn't post about your wedding on FB when you're not inviting all of us seeing this crap.
Posted by the another bride-to-be's mother (and subsequently shared by bride-to-be):
"Ok friend's do you want to be invited to / help with the [Smith-Jones] Wedding events in 2015, 2016 and 2017 ?
I need your contact information (your email address, phone/text numbers and home addresses) - Send your information to [specialaddresswithweddingname] so you will be on the contact list."
I'm sorry, hon, but everyone is going to be so sick of your wedding by the time it rolls around if you have years worth of 'wedding events.' Also grammar. And basically suggesting people should be asking you if they can work at your wedding.
I vent here so I don't sink to their level by responding on FB.