I just started a new job this past February and there are 4 women (plus myself) who work very closely with one another. In creating the guest list for my shower, I'm not sure who I should/shouldn't include on the list I give to my MOH. I would love to have the 4 women I mentioned earlier at the shower. These 4 women didn't receive a save the date, since those went out prior to me starting my job, but obviously if I invite them to the shower then they will also be invited to the wedding.
Is this making sense? Is it ok to only invite certain co-workers to the shower/wedding? I'm close enough with each of them that I can make it clear that it shouldn't be discussed at work, so as to not offend anyone who wasn't invited. I just want to be sure that it isn't "tacky" to invite them after only having known them for about 2 months? They each have asked questions about the wedding/wedding planning, so part of me feels like talking about wedding plans with them would be rude if they weren't invited to be a part of the festivities.
I'll take any advice/feedback/guidance anyone has to offer.