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Told this little gem, today...

themuffinman16themuffinman16 member
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edited March 2015 in Chit Chat
"I hope your endometriosis is so bad, that you are never able to have children because even God knows you would be a terrible mother." (Told this by my little sister who actually had her daughter taken away by CPS).
I can't even sleep. I am so pissed. I. Hate. Drama. I am wading in this shit neck-deep this week.
I have to admit, I lost my cool and replied with something equally nasty. My sister, also has endometriosis. She was hospitalized for it, and, even though I have not talked to her in 6 years (from making false statements about me to authorities), I took her home from the hospital because she is still my sister. I would never wish a disease on anyone. Who does that?
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  • doeydodoeydo member
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    OMG, I'm so sorry, I don't even know what to say.
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  • themuffinman16themuffinman16 member
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    I wish I had that problem. Instead, I lost my cool and said something that wasn't nice. I'm very sensitive about this because H and I have been trying, but still, it doesn't make it okay to stoop to her level.
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  • mikenbergermikenberger member
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    themuffinman16 said:

    "I hope your endometriosis is so bad, that you are never able to have children because even God knows you would be a terrible mother." (Told this by my little sister who actually had her daughter taken away by CPS).
    I can't even sleep. I am so pissed. I. Hate. Drama. I am wading in this shit neck-deep this week.
    I have to admit, I lost my cool and replied with something equally nasty. My sister, also has endometriosis. She was hospitalized for it, and, even though I have not talked to her in 6 years (from making false statements about me to authorities), I took her home from the hospital because she is still my sister. I would never wish a disease on anyone. Who does that?

    It's clear that she doesn't look at you as her sister. So it's pretty obvious what you can do with your relationship with her. 

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  • themuffinman16themuffinman16 member
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    I know, and for I don't view her as my sister, either. In an emergent situation I feel like she is still my sister. And I have had to redefine what is an emergency over the years. I don't expect her to treat me like a sister, I would settle for her treating people as humans.
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  • emmaaaemmaaa mod
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    I never understand how/why people can be so hurtful. The one's closest to you always seem to say the things that cut the deepest because they know what gets to you. I'm sorry you have someone so toxic in your life.

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  • mikenbergermikenberger member
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    Some people are just awful :( and there's no helping her. Sorry she said that. It was pretty low of her. 

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    emmaaa said:

    I never understand how/why people can be so hurtful. The one's closest to you always seem to say the things that cut the deepest because they know what gets to you. I'm sorry you have someone so toxic in your life.

    For the most part, I have no association with her. But, there has been a death in the family, and she lives with my mom, so I have had more exposure to her than I have had in a while.
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    themuffinman16 said:

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    For the most part, I have no association with her. But, there has been a death in the family, and she lives with my mom, so I have had more exposure to her than I have had in a while.
    It sounds like not associating with her is the best thing for your sanity.

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    It sounds like not associating with her is the best thing for your sanity.
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    My mother kind of put me in a drama clusterfuck, and I walked right into it. Usually, I know how to avoid it, but I extreme situations, I want to help my mother and I get burned. Sometimes, my heart is bigger than my field of vision, and I don't see the shit I will walk into. Every time, I learn a new lesson, though.
    I need "The More You Know" gif.
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    themuffinman16 said:

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    QFT

    My mother kind of put me in a drama clusterfuck, and I walked right into it. Usually, I know how to avoid it, but I extreme situations, I want to help my mother and I get burned. Sometimes, my heart is bigger than my field of vision, and I don't see the shit I will walk into. Every time, I learn a new lesson, though.
    I need "The More You Know" gif.
    Don't beat yourself up for someone else being shitty to you. Even if you technically put yourself in the situation, you weren't asking to be treated in that manner. Family is hard. It's easy to SAY you aren't going to see them or help them anymore, but that's one of those things that's easier said than done.

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  • novella1186novella1186 member
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    Jesus.... that's fucking awful. That makes the shit my sister says seem like compliments. I'm so sorry she said something that hateful to you. I can't even imagine saying something like that to another person. Fuck! 

    I commend you for not punching her right in the mouth. 
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  • ashley8918ashley8918 member
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    "Hi. Go fuck yourself. Eat a dick. K, bye."

    She's obviously 7 kinds of fucked up; why even engage?
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  • flyingfoxesflyingfoxes member
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    What an asshole.   Hopefully after this funeral you can put her firmly back in your rearview mirror. 
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    Christ, I am sorry you have that bullshit in your life.

    I'm sorry that anyone here has had to deal with similar bullshit in their lives.

    I can think some pretty mean shit, but I would never say anything like that to my worst enemy, let alone my sister. I don't know what is wrong with people, I really don't.
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    I got nothing but hugs and cute animals
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  • mrsdee15mrsdee15 member
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    What is wrong with some people?  That's such a cruel thing to say, I'm so sorry.  I don't have advice except to cut that toxin out of your life.  All the creepy internet hugs to you!
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  • InkdancerInkdancer member
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    Can I just hug everyone? I can't fucking believe some people. 
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  • sarawifenowsarawifenow member
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    Omg that is so terrible! As someone who is struggling with starting a family, comments like that make me so ragey. I echo PPs, you gotta cut that bitch out of your life.
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    novella1186 said:

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    FTFY

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  • kmbay84kmbay84 member
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    Oh my goodness, that is horrible!!  I am so sorry!  Who says stuff like that?  I don't have advice, but just internet hugs!
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