I have to vent or should I say, snark. One of my BM's who I've been friends with since college and I are the last two single girls left out of our friends. I'm now getting married and have been pretty quiet about my planning and so forth until a couple months ago. I had to get moving on the BM dresses. Ever since I started getting into the details she has started to plan her own wedding and will call and complain about venues, flowers, guest list, etc, not even saying "hello" first, but here's the best part....she's not engaged!!! No ring, no proposal, nothing!!!! It's all she talks about. It's straight up annoying. The part that is irking me the most is she's knocking my very REAL wedding and saying things like its "excessive" and "showy" and her "wedding" is going to be simple and elegant. Really?!? I bite my tongue every time we're on the phone. I want to scream "WTF! YOU'RE NOT ENGAGED!!!!" I've been overly careful about talking too much wedding with her, because I get it. I've been in her seat before when our others friends got married. I'm trying very hard to give her a pass because she's super sensitive about not being married or engaged, but correct me if I'm wrong, she's being rude and a little hurtful. She's even talked about possibly missing my shower because that "might" be the weekend he proposes.
My poor fiancé has heard enough on this topic and thinks she's anything but a friend.