A friend showed me her invites today. Included was an rsvp card, where she is asking guests to indicate which events they'll be attending (welcome drinks, ceremony, reception, and brunch the following day - each fully hosted). It makes sense to me, so that they can plan out each event. But is it rude to ask people whether they'll be attending both the ceremony and reception? As opposed to assuming that if guests attend one, they'll attend both?