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Frustrated with my uterus

edited April 2015 in Chit Chat
Sometimes, I feel judged because my periods are so painful, and I must be a giant baby. I have just been really depressed, lately, with our TTC efforts resulting in nothing, and every month, then I am blessed with a crippling period. Last night, at my family's house, I passed out. I knew something was wrong when people started talking and I had no idea what they were saying. The harder I was trying to listen, the further I would be confused as to what was said and who said it. I, then, started bleeding so heavily, that I fainted while doing the dishes. My H took me home, last night, and I have been in bed all day. I can't stand for more than a couple of minutes without getting dizzy spells.
   It just devastates me that my symptoms with endometriosis are so much like a pregnancy.  The nausea, the bloating, heightened sense of smell. I get so excited that I could be pregnant, because I time fertility just right, I have been using FAM, charting of cervical fluid, cervical positioning, and basal body temperature.  I saw all of the signs that I was ovulating, and I am still not knocked the hell up, with a ton of sex.
   H and I said we would foster, but we wanted to conceive a child, first. But when I start having excessive bleeding to the point of fainting, it scares me what is going on inside of me, and if it gets worse, what I can expect. This is just the course endometriosis takes until I go back on the pill, get pregnant, or have a hysterectomy. I am just having a really bad day, today, and questioning everything. If someone has red panda gifs or puppies, that would make me feel a little better. 

Re: Frustrated with my uterus

  • I'm sorry you're going through that!

    I don't gif well, but maybe quokka selfies will help?image

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  • Yikes! I'm sorry to hear this. Sending you good thoughts :)
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  • Sorry you're having a rough time. Red Pandas always make me smile:

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  • I'm so sorry :( That's a lot to be dealing with. 

    I can somewhat relate to the crippling periods. I used to be in so much pain I couldn't stand up or lie down or eat or do anything. It was absolutely unbearable. My doctor acted like I was just trying to score better drugs so she wouldn't prescribe me anything which was kind of humiliating and frustrating. (I was a teenager at the time, so I understand her hesitation, but it was like she didn't believe the level of pain I was in and how much it disrupted my everyday life). When I got on the shot and stopped getting periods, it was finally ok. You get all the sympathy in the world from me for having to deal with that every month. 

    Hugs to you. And this: 
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  • I'm sorry you are having a rough day :( Here's some red panda gifs for you - they are just the cutest little guys!


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  • I'm sorry. That's all fucking terrible, and I hope you can get pregnant soon and put a stop to your suffering.

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    This baby knows exactly how I feel
  • luckya23 said:

    I'm sorry you're going through that!

    I don't gif well, but maybe quokka selfies will help?image

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    Hope this adorable puppy helps.


                       
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    Or "not your uterus, no opinion."

    Don't let other people make you feel judged or inferior. They have no idea what's going on in YOUR body. I'm sorry it's being so shitty to you and hope you get knocked up really soon. :(

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  • I'm sorry for your pain and your struggles.

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  • Thanks everyone for the sweet gifs.  think if I had red panda, this day would be so much better.  I slept for a long time, today, and I am feeling much better.  Hopefully, I can go back about my life, tomorrow.
  • A good fitness regimen is always helpful.
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  • Ugh. Sorry to hear that. I hope things turn around for you soon.

    I can relate somewhat. Not with the awful periods, but with infertility generally sucking. We're on month 3 of TTC and I haven't even ovulated yet, all the clomid is doing is making me uselessly tired, weepy, and hot flashy. Plus I keep getting false positive OPKs. Infertility blows.
  • I'm sorry :(

    Seriously, they're not in your body, so they don't know.  

    If you haven't already, I'd definitely advise finding a NaPro technology doctor.  They've helped some of my friends with Endo, and with conceiving.  

    Hope you can get the help you need and conceive soon!

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  • I'm so sorry.  I also have crippling periods.  BC has helped, but obviously that's the opposite of what you want/need right now.  I know how frustrating it gets when people think you're overreacting or exaggerating.  Don't listen to them.  *Hugs* 


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  • monkeysip said:

    I'm sorry :(


    Seriously, they're not in your body, so they don't know.  

    If you haven't already, I'd definitely advise finding a NaPro technology doctor.  They've helped some of my friends with Endo, and with conceiving.  

    Hope you can get the help you need and conceive soon!
    That's the next step, but my doctor wanted me to try for a year, first.  I think in a few months, if I have no progress, I will go to her. I really don't want to keep having these problems for a year, if medical intervention will make it better. But with the FAM charting, she will know I am doing all that I can on my end, and it isn't for lack of trying or knowledge).
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  • monkeysip said:

    I'm sorry :(


    Seriously, they're not in your body, so they don't know.  

    If you haven't already, I'd definitely advise finding a NaPro technology doctor.  They've helped some of my friends with Endo, and with conceiving.  

    Hope you can get the help you need and conceive soon!
    That's the next step, but my doctor wanted me to try for a year, first.  I think in a few months, if I have no progress, I will go to her. I really don't want to keep having these problems for a year, if medical intervention will make it better. But with the FAM charting, she will know I am doing all that I can on my end, and it isn't for lack of trying or knowledge).
    Considering you bleed heavily enough to faint and be put out of commission because of endo, I think it's a little unfair to expect you to wait an entire year. A year is how long you make a healthy person with zero expected complication wait, not someone who can develop a host of serious problems.
    Thanks. I wanted to go to my doctor sooner, but I was worried she would think I didn't put in a sufficient effort to conceive before medical intervention. I will make an appointment to see if I can do something to speed this up
  • monkeysip said:

    I'm sorry :(


    Seriously, they're not in your body, so they don't know.  

    If you haven't already, I'd definitely advise finding a NaPro technology doctor.  They've helped some of my friends with Endo, and with conceiving.  

    Hope you can get the help you need and conceive soon!
    That's the next step, but my doctor wanted me to try for a year, first.  I think in a few months, if I have no progress, I will go to her. I really don't want to keep having these problems for a year, if medical intervention will make it better. But with the FAM charting, she will know I am doing all that I can on my end, and it isn't for lack of trying or knowledge).
    Considering you bleed heavily enough to faint and be put out of commission because of endo, I think it's a little unfair to expect you to wait an entire year. A year is how long you make a healthy person with zero expected complication wait, not someone who can develop a host of serious problems.
    Thanks. I wanted to go to my doctor sooner, but I was worried she would think I didn't put in a sufficient effort to conceive before medical intervention. I will make an appointment to see if I can do something to speed this up
    Yeah, I am no doctor- but if I were in your boat, I would see what I could do to speed up the process of getting some extra treatment/attention. If they tell you no, they tell you no- but you don't sound like a "normal" case.

    I wish you all the best! So sorry to hear you have to go through this.
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