Hi everyone,
I'm having a bit of a dilemma and don't know what to do. I got engaged in January and I'm tentatively getting married next June. I haven't chosen my bridal party partly because I don't have a definite date as well as being unsure as to how large the wedding will be. I'm almost certain though that I want my cousin as my maid of honor. The only problem is she's a very masculine looking female, to the point that she does not correct people in public when they call her "he" or "sir" etc. The fact that she won't wear a dress is not an issue to me. The fact is do I call her "maid of honour" when her outward exterior does not show female? I don't want to offend her by calling her my "best man" and I don't like the sound of "person of honor". Has anyone seen this situation before or have any suggestions? Any help or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!