A good friend of mine is having her bridal shower in 2 weeks. I'm really excited for her and looking forward to seeing her since I don't get to see her very often. I would love to get her a really nice gift but I'm on a pretty tight budget these days and I have quite a few big expenses coming up later this month. So I'm trying to figure out how much I can afford to spend. I was planning on just writing a $100 check for a wedding present. Now I'm wondering if I should budget that toward a shower gift instead and do just a card for the wedding or split the difference and do about $50 for a shower present and $50 for the wedding.
When you are invited to a bridal shower do you usually give a gift at the shower and the wedding or just the shower? I've never been invited to a bridal shower before so I'm not sure what the norm is. I'm sure I'm over-thinking this. I feel bad that I can't afford to spend more on a shower gift and still give the same amount I was planning on giving for the wedding.