Hello Knotties,
I've been engaged for a year . At the begging of our engagement we where excited. My fiance bought me a planner and bridal magazines. Shortly after our engagement he got let go from his job which put a planning on a hold . Since then he has been hired at a new job and loves it and I'm moving forward in my career. Over the course of the past few weeks we have decided to discuss planning again with our parents . How ever here is my struggle we aren't the wealthiest and nether are my parents . At this point we have decided we would like a small intimate wedding which will include his family of 13 and mine of 7 . My problem is my parents are busy getting there house ready for the market and as soon as I drop the word planning they will automatically say they have no funds to give us . How do I go about planning and bringing it up to them shall I say we want a small intimate wedding max 30 people .I'm thinking of maybe a small packet telling them reason why we want it . My reason for coming on here is cause my mother wants me to have a big white wedding .