I am not sure if any of you have experienced this but my family has made me feel bad or even crazy about talking about my wedding. I want to enjoy this experience but if i feel like an idiot every time i talk about it its just not fun. I'm planning a wedding where everyone needs to travel to the destination. My FI and I both live in this location. Am I crazy for planning early? wanting to talk about the wedding?! this is really taking away from the experience.