Does anyone have a polite way to un-invite a guest? I am afraid I may need to "suck it up".I did an obligation invite to the mother of my best friend from college, as she was in a roommate situation with her 2 grown children both of whom I *did* want to invite. The mother has always been basically friendly but very quirky and occasionally grouchy for odd reasons.
In the last few years she has gotten worse (either bipolar or borderline personality- I forget which), and I was informed that upon my last visit, this woman would randomly grouch about me, though I was model guest as far as everyone else was concerned.
My friend is still coming and no longer lives with her mother due to the same grouchy, irritating behavior that I am apprehensive to have at my wedding. My friend's brother cannot attend and the mom originally said no, but is now trying to make my friend share a car and hotel room, even though it will be more expensive for her daughter. Is it wrong to tell this irritating and wishy-washy person that they said no first so I can no longer accommodate them, even if I could truthfully squeeze them in?
Please advise