This may all be trivial, but it just annoys me to no end and I figure no better place than the snarky forum to post because that's exactly how this woman is making me feel today.
One of my bridesmaids got engaged about two months after I did, and as such, she's been planning her wedding right along with me. For the most part, it's been fun being able to offer advice to each other but some of the things she's doing/saying are making me want to shake her by the shoulders, and she isn't the type of person who takes criticism well.....
When I chose my wedding date, I called all my bridesmaids to let them know so they could mark their calendars and she actually told me I couldn't get married on that day because it was "her wedding date". Later she told me it was "just a joke".
She chose the Saturday immediately after my wedding to get married, to which I replied "that's awesome but I won't be able to make it"- she told me this while we were shopping for her bridesmaid dress, and when I told her I couldn't attend because I will be gone on my own honeymoon, she promptly had a meltdown in the store.
She actually called me a week later while I was at work to complain and tell me I was "being a shitty friend by missing her wedding, and using the fact that you just got married as an excuse". I can't make it because I'll be in Mexico on my honeymoon, not because I don't want to go.
Same bridesmaid has already changed her last name on facebook.
Same bridesmaid is now posting photos of both herself and her FI on facebook wearing wedding rings. Legit pictures of just their hands.
Are you married or engaged? I would assume changing your name before the wedding is a no-no, let alone wearing any sort of wedding bands before you're married.
I'm wondering if they just went to the courthouse and now she's planning a PPD....is it wrong I want to call her and ask if they're already married? Can you really not wait the whole 9 months of your engagement before presenting yourself as a Mrs. online?
I don't know that her and I will be friends very long past our weddings if this is how she really is. I've known her for four years, and while she has been pushy at times, I've never seen her act so ridiculous.