We are having an extremely simple and small wedding. Our ceremony will be at a local historic house in a park. The "reception" for the ~20 guests will be us getting a banquet room at a restaurant about 10 minutes from the ceremony venue. We are paying for all the food and liquor for the dinner.
I ordered the cake from the Sam's Club close to the ceremony venue so I could pick it up on the way there to get ready. I already confirmed the cake does not need to be refrigerated. The plan was for the cake to be in the house's kitchen until we move to the restaurant and it would come with me. We cannot take the cake to the restaurant beforehand.
My mom is stressing herself out over this because what if [all the things]. She says it would be better to pick up between the ceremony and restaurant. I said nope, that's more trouble.
So what does she do? She asks a friend of hers to pick up the cake from Sam's and bring it to the restaurant.
I'm NOT HAPPY because this seems incredibly rude (that and WTF?!?! I did not ask her to do this). This person is not invited to the wedding, it's immediate family only.
We're 9 days out and it's entirely possible I have just completely lost it. Thoughts??
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