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Complicated situation because of personal relationship

JaniV123JaniV123 member
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I have to "fire" someone who I didn't actually hire. Its a family friend and someone who did us a lot of favors at the beginning of wedding planning. We were going to hire her to do our decoration but it kept getting pushed up and held up and it was going nowhere but up in pricing. Well today I got super pissed off at her and her lack of commitment to go through with the phone calls she kept promising. 

I had her money all ready to go and it seems she couldve cared less. 

Well I called a coordinator/decorator I had contacted a year ago and miraculously she was available on our date and I just signed her! :) 

But now I have to call friend and tell her "sorry you didn't have enough motivation to work with us, thank you for all your help, but we found someone else" 

So any help in the wording department????


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Re: Complicated situation because of personal relationship

  • falsarafalsara member
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    julieanne912 said:

    Hi Friend, 


    FI and I have decided to go another direction with our decorating.  We really appreciate all your help you've given us, but we have found someone who is a better fit for our needs.  Thanks! 


    I tend to be a "short and to the point" kind of person.  
    I'd go with this. 

                                               

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  • anjemonanjemon member
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    I think it depends on the closeness of the friend in question. I think what @julieanne912 wrote is really great. I'd go with that for people I'm not close to or don't see often. But if it's a good friend you will still be inviting to the wedding, I might add something about "deciding to just let her be a guest" or something to make it a little bit more personal. 
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  • JaniV123JaniV123 member
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    @julieanne912 thank you so much. I ended up going with something similar but a little more extensive. I have been pending to thank you but its been a rough couple of days. thanks again!


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    JaniV123 said:

    @julieanne912 thank you so much. I ended up going with something similar but a little more extensive. I have been pending to thank you but its been a rough couple of days. thanks again!

    You're welcome, glad I could be of help! :)  
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