Awww I just got a call from a friend of ours. He is also engaged and such. Well they have their premarital course the same day of the wedding and they get out at 5pm (our ceremony will start at 4) and he was worried about just showing up to the reception so he wanted to call before RSVPing. I found it so sweet of him. I was like "it is not a big deal! And especially I understand what it's like" haha but it made me giggle at him thinking it would be offensive!