Browsing /r/weddingplanning and came across this gem. Thought of you guys.
So my fiancé just got into medical school across the country, so for practical reasons we need to get married before we go. We were originally planning on having a HUGE wedding in September of 2016, and we still will have this wedding, but now I need help planning a very small ceremony with only close family and some close friends. We don't want most people to know about this small wedding, because we don't want people to think our big wedding is less special. Which brings me to this post what are the essentials I need? I still want this to feel really special, I mean we are getting married it should still be special, but I've had my heart set on a big wedding being the only wedding so yeah... Any advice, tiles, reminders on what I should not forget would be sooo appreciated! We're planning on having the ceremony at the Canyon and doing an intimate dinner after. I'm trying not to be bummed, I mean this isn't what I wanted, but it's not like I'm not getting my big wedding later. It just feels so odd to me that my big wedding won't be my legal wedding. I'm hoping with your ladies wonderful advice I'll love my small rushed one and feel great about it.