My MOG wants my fiance to come to the shower and participate in the shower as much as I am (the bride). Open presents and such. No other men are coming, just him, so it is not a Jack and Jill. My family typically does bride only and it's all women, so I find this extremely weird. My fiance really doesn't care to come, but his mom and my mom are hosting. Do we just go along with this? Is this weird or is it me? Do grooms usually come to showers with all women?