My FI and I recently made the decision to change our venue from a barn that we could host 125 people to my mother's backyard, where we'll have a small wedding with only family and a few friends in attendance.
However, my dad is making things difficult. He and I are not very close, and his girlfriend/babymama is a complete jerk. He's basically told me that not inviting more of his side of the family will make things awkward for them since the wedding won't be in "neutral" territory.
I'm very close with my mother's side of the family, and I've invited her two brothers (my uncles plus their wives/kids) and my grandparents. One of my uncles is officiating. This brings my mom's side total to 13, plus my step-dad's side of 4, so 17 total.
Basically, I'm wondering if I should move the wedding to neutral territory or invite more of my dad's family? On one hand, I want to make everyone comfortable, but on the other, he hasn't contributed anything to the wedding (my mom and step-dad have paid for and hosted everything).