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I done did it!!

Ahh, after all that planning, the wedding day finally arrived!  It was such a whirlwind, and then back to reality for a couple weeks while I finish up the school year before heading to the beach (with my in laws, so a great vacation, but not quite a honeymoon!)  It's funny; I didn't think it would be too different since we've lived together so long, but we are totally sickeningly sweet newlyweds.  I've never seen H so happy!! :)

Overall the day was great.  The food was awesome, bar was great, the dance music and lights were awesome, the flowers around the venue were just insanely beautiful (no pics of them yet, though :( )

There were only a couple hiccups, but they were really disappointing.  First, the DJ left the ceremony speaker sitting in the sun and it fucked up and I had no processional music.  What's worse, is it started playing all distorted and he didn't cut it right away.

But the worse thing was that my coordinators--after I had a specific conversation letting them know people needed to be able to sit at their dinner tables during cocktail hour--tried not to let anyone sit, including my grandmother with alzheimer's, and they proceeded to argue with my great aunt about a damn chair.  They also told guests they couldn't talk to me immediately after the ceremony (we made a circle around the venue back to the altar for photos and ran into guests along the way), and I just generally had several comments made to me about, "What's up the coordinator's ass?"  Oh, AND 10 minutes before the ceremony, they told me there was traffic and I should push the ceremony back 20 minutes.  I pulled up the traffic app and the traffic was so far away that if anyone was in it, they weren't making it any time soon.  We started on time!

I also got really, really, really sick the day before the wedding and missed my own rehearsal, but that's its own post :/




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  • Oh, you look so happy! Congrats and you look beautiful!

    Make sure to leave a review about those coordinators. 
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  • Congrats!

    Love your dress.
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  • Congratulations!!  Your dress is so sparkly and pretty!!

  • I like that you included a picture of the food.

    Also YAY YOU MARRIED.

    Also, WTF coordinators? No one talk to Lurker. Do not make eye contact with Lurker. She's a very important person with diva-tude right now you must not speak with her.
  • You look so beautiful! And your venue is lovely (which I only know because you told me where it was)

    Stinks that you were sick, but it's great that you were better for the wedding. Congratulations!
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  • MagicInk said:

    I like that you included a picture of the food.


    Also YAY YOU MARRIED.

    Also, WTF coordinators? No one talk to Lurker. Do not make eye contact with Lurker. She's a very important person with diva-tude right now you must not speak with her.
    I know the way to knotties' hearts :)




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  • Everything looks incredible, and you're gorgeous! Congratulations!
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  • You looked gorgeous!

    I had very similar issues at my wedding too (DJ screwed up, coordinator tried to get me to delay the ceremony).

    Congrats!!
  • you looked amazing!!!! congrats!


  • You look beautiful! I love your dress!

    You can go ahead and send me the leftovers too. I had Krystal for dinner and it was not half as satisfying as that looks.
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  • Beautiful! Congrats!

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  • falsarafalsara member
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    Gorgeous! !! Congratulations!

                                               

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  • loro929loro929 member
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    Gorgeous!
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  • arrippaarrippa member
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    Congratulations! You look amazing. I am sorry that the coordinators acted terribly with your grandmother. I hope you talk to them about it and leave feedback.
  • Congrats!! You look so beautiful and I loooove your dress!!

                                                                     

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  • Congratulations! That dress is gorgeous and the food looks so tasty!
  • Yay! Congrats, you look so beautiful and happy! I love it! :) 
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  • Thank you!!  I am planning to contact the coordinators/their event company today (they were included as part of my venue package, but they work for an outside company).  I was pretty pissed about the situation, so I needed to cool off so that I could compose the ole "firm, but polite" email or phone call instead of just raging at them.  I also want to make sure I don't leave out any of the annoying things they did (like closing off access to the ladies room before the ceremony and sending guests to my bridal suite to use the restroom, so the door opened about 20 times while I was "hiding" from the groom--we didn't have a first look.)




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  • Omg I am swooning over your dress!
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  • Congratulations! You look so beautiful!
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    This baby knows exactly how I feel
  • Thank you!!  I am planning to contact the coordinators/their event company today (they were included as part of my venue package, but they work for an outside company).  I was pretty pissed about the situation, so I needed to cool off so that I could compose the ole "firm, but polite" email or phone call instead of just raging at them.  I also want to make sure I don't leave out any of the annoying things they did (like closing off access to the ladies room before the ceremony and sending guests to my bridal suite to use the restroom, so the door opened about 20 times while I was "hiding" from the groom--we didn't have a first look.)

    yeah they sound like total morons. I'm sorry you had to deal with that jackassery. But at least you looked stunning and got to marry your [now] H! :) 
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  • labrolabro member
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    Congratulations!!!

    Just curious, what venue did you use? It looks crazy familiar to me! I'm wondering if we looked at it, or I looked at it with my sister when she was getting married.

    Those coordinators though....ugh!!! I'd write an email to the venue manager/owner AND leave a review. I'd have been pretty annoyed if they kept sending people to the bridal suite for use of the bathroom while I was trying to "hide" prior to the ceremony. That was my quiet alone time.



  • I LOVE YOUR DRESS!
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  • GORGEOUS, ladyfriend! Sorry about the hiccups but I'm glad it all still went so well. And happy to have you back. :)

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