I have two sisters. One lives in a different state with her husband and toddler, she is having another baby in a few months. The other lives close by. I have posted about her before, most recently in like December when she was moving in a new boyfriend to live with her and her kids that nobody really knows.
Fast forward 6 months, and she has a new boyfriend. I think that have been together since January or February. She just texted myself and the other sister to say that she too is pregnant, 9 weeks. The text was really obnoxious and included "I hope that someday you will come to accept your new niece or nephew." This pissed me off because I adore all of my nieces and nephews. I guess she is afraid that we will judge her for having another kid with a different man. She then followed up with a text saying how her daughter was so excited that both of them are having babies and she wants to know when I am going to. (That annoyed me because we have been trying for about 5 months now and i'm 2 weeks late, so I really should take a test, but now i'm even more nervous and stressed about that)
My bigger issue is that she doesn't even really take care of the kids. My parents are constantly watching them, paying for stuff for them, shuttling them from place to place. I am often asked to watch them and take them places. I am afraid of the burden that this will put on my parents more than anything else. I just feel like it is a really irresponsible decision on her part to have another child when she can't even take care of the ones she has.
I also have an issue with the fact that nobody really knows this guy. That makes me nervous with her other kids as well.
I'm happy about the new baby, because I love babies. . . . but I am just tired of her poor choices and how they negatively impact the whole family and stress everyone out!